Guys: Does a girl's voice matter when dating?

no not atall, guys will love you for who you are. You said it yourself personality will outweigh it by 9999999999999999999999999999999999999999… tons. I completley understand about having voice problems i strained mine when i was having an argument with my mate years ago its never been right since its pritty much ruined my life i regret that moment so much. I know where your coming from about the insecurities its frustrating and it really affects your life you end up missing out on things you want to do. But dating wise you will be fine.